10 Things About Life In Your 20s You May Not Have Known

10 Things About Life In Your 20s You May Not Have Known

If you are in your 20s, you should take the time to reflect on what life looks like in your 20s, and I believe that the moment you take the time to reflect, you will realise that it is nothing like you had expected.

In this phase, where we usually have our heads in the clouds and life is full of new possibilities and choices, our life is also full of changes and challenges. We often believe that we will remain the same throughout our lives, but this is not the case. We evolve at different stages of our lives, and your 20s are the time when you learn more about yourself, the world, your interests, and your purpose, as well as how to deal with challenges and seize opportunities.

 
Here are the 10 things I am sharing with you that I have realized, learned, and am still experiencing, and what you need to know:

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1. Your Personality is your Essence:

Build self-awareness because being aware of oneself is about staying real, accepting your flaws, and not disregarding your imperfections. Just because you post a lot of filtered selfies and have an active social media presence doesn't mean anyone will like you more. You are not better at life because of your appearance, your weight, or your work. What makes you successful is owning yourself, loving yourself despite all your flaws, and how you interact with other human beings and how you make them feel about themselves. Your personality is your essence, which attracts your tribe.

2. Know Yourself:

A lot will change in your twenties. We often believe that we will remain the same throughout our lives, but this is not the case. We evolve at different stages of our lives, and your 20s are the crucial time when you learn more about yourself, the world, your interests, and your purpose, as well as how to deal with challenges and seize opportunities.

3. Responsibilities and Challenges:

We need to understand that in our 20s, we feel a lot of pressure and have responsibilities; that is, we have to work hard to carve out a place in society where we find ourselves more accountable towards our families and loved ones, and that we must sometimes face and suffer in silence from mental illnesses. Sometimes, in the pursuit of our ideal happiness, we forget to enjoy the ordinary happiness of our lives. What we forget is that we can choose happiness at any time. Your moments of happiness don't need to be so extraordinary that you sacrifice your ordinary moments to maintain peace in your life.

4. Don't Commit to Something Just Because You're Supposed To:

There is a lot of pressure to figure out "what you want to be when you grow up." The majority of us have jobs that have nothing to do with what we studied in school. We are taught to choose a career and stick with it for the rest of our lives, but this is an outmoded viewpoint. If what you're doing makes your skin crawl, you're unlikely to "grow into it." Don't commit to something just because you're supposed to. It's fine to play it safe as long as you're experimenting with things that light you up.

5. Personal Growth:

If you think staying in your comfort zone is where life happens, you're wrong. You will regret your perception. Get out of your comfort zone because a growth mindset is crucial to your happiness in your 20s. Life in your 20s is full of promise and possibility. During this decade, you're full of energy and eager to make decisions about your future. You may find a job, find a partner, and start a family. You also have plenty of time to make yourself happy by doing what you want to do. Life is excellent in your 20s; however, you need to make some sensible choices to maximise your good time in your 20s.

6. Explore Your 20s:

As I mentioned earlier 20s are a period of great change and excitement. You have plenty of time to find a job, build relationships and make decisions about your future. You also have time to discover and pursue your interests. Many people find new hobbies or return to old interests after years of focusing on work. For example, many people in their 20s return to college courses or pursue further education. Others choose to join the military or join the workforce for longer periods. Whatever you choose, this is a great time in your life to connect with new people and interests.

7. Failure:

The perspective that I've learned and currently have is that failure is nothing to be ashamed of and is often something that leads to future success. What matters is how the failure is dealt with and what is learned from the experience. If something doesn't work out, find alternative solutions. Try something else. It's not the end of the alley.

8. Meet People Where They Are:

Love them for who they are, not for what they could be or what you wish they would be. Instead of attempting to change others, begin by changing yourself. My advice is to recognise the difference and avoid taking other people's problems personally. If you think a person is disturbing you or not good enough, then stay away.

9. Make Sound Decisions:

Another thing to consider is that success comes from making good decisions, especially when it comes to yourself. You can't grow if you don't take any action toward that end. Therefore, self-development is crucial to your happiness at this stage in life. This can be done through reading books and making videos about your interests, attending workshops, or joining social groups for like-minded individuals. Your 20s are an excellent opportunity to start building the life you want for the future; use them by paying attention to these crucial choices.

10. Forgiving Yourself for Past Mistakes:

The only way I think I have learned anything in my twenties is that I must forgive myself for previous mistakes. You can't go back in time, but you can concentrate on what you want to create in the future. Forgiving yourself can be painful and difficult, but it is the first step toward letting go of your old story and writing a new one.

There's a lot for you to experience during your 20s—but only if you make sound decisions with calculated risk. Use this period wisely, focusing on growth and fulfilment instead of fun and relaxation (don't indulge in it too much).

Remember:

No one loves you more than you love yourself, so love yourself completely because you are your best advocate.